One Error in Judgement: The Triple M Conversation Every Family Should Hear This Christmas
- shane-jay
- Dec 5, 2025
- 2 min read
By Shane Jay – Founder, Safe Roads For Us
When I sat down with Ed from Triple M Gippsland, we weren’t trying to record a dramatic road safety campaign. We simply had a genuine chat about how one error in judgement behind the wheel can change everything – for a driver, for their mates, and for the people who love them.
In just over 14 minutes, we talked about those everyday moments that lead to tragedy: driving tired, trying to impress friends, “pushing through” on the way home, or assuming “it’ll be fine”. No scare tactics – just real lived experience, and what happens in the seconds before and after a crash.
Listen to the interview here: Ed for Breakfast – Shane Jay – Road Safety
Why this matters right now
Christmas and summer in Victoria mean long drives, late nights, beach trips and parties. It’s also when:
Teens and young adults are out more with friends
Fatigue, alcohol and distractions are everywhere
“It’s only a short drive” becomes the most dangerous sentence in the car
This Triple M chat is an easy way for parents and grandparents to open up a deeper conversation. You don’t need a big speech. You can simply say:
“Hey, I heard this interview about road choices – want to listen together?”
Play it in the car, over dinner, or while you’re getting ready for Christmas. Let the story do the heavy lifting.
Turning a radio chat into a family safety plan
After you’ve listened, a few gentle questions can go a long way:
“If you were in that situation, what would you have done?”
“What feels hardest when it comes to saying no, or calling for a lift?”
“What do you need from us so you never feel stuck in an unsafe car?”
From there, set a couple of clear, calm non-negotiables as a family – like:
You can call us any time for a lift, no judgement
If you’re tired or uncomfortable, you don’t have to get in the car
When you drive, your mates’ lives are your responsibility too
That’s how one radio segment becomes a genuine life-saving conversation.
A different kind of Christmas gift
For families who want to go further, Safe Roads For Us has created Great Drives Good Vibes – Online – a 60-minute live session for teens that builds on exactly these themes: real stories, peer pressure, and the split-second moments when choices really matter.
It’s delivered online and includes:
A lived-experience talk from me
Practical tools for handling risky situations
Mental rehearsal prompts for your teen
A simple conversation guide for parents and grandparents
Instead of another gadget, this is a Christmas gift that might genuinely save a life.
Book a session for your teen or grandchild: Great Drives Good Vibes – Online
On our roads, one error in judgement can change everything.This Christmas, I hope this one conversation helps your family change it for the better
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